More about me

I came out to my family in my early 40's and most of them at least tolerated my decision--a couple had a really hard time with it. I did the normal therapy, HRT under a doctor's care, and coming out at work. After about a year, I went for surgery at age 44. I'm since semi-retired, had a long term lesbian relationship--which I eventually terminated. I've moved a couple times and had on and off again relationships with family members. I've found that the vast majority of guys are not interested in a post-op transsexual in her 40/50s--sorry to burst your bubble girls. Moral of the story; if you are hoping to find Mr Wonderful, don't hold your breath. I've learned that I'm attracted to both men and women--though only certain men and certain women--can't explain who that is but I know when I meet them. I'm fairly preoccupied with me and my little world and don't even hope for a long-term relationship. I enjoy great sex from time to time with someone special, and that's about it. I have a few great friends and family members who I truly enjoy time with. I'm always opened to discussing any/all of this with anyone truly interested. See my email address on the home page. Best of luck and love to all--I believe in the golden rule and am into karma...I try not to hate on anyone because I don't want them doing it to me.